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每天壹小步,人生壹大步
Latelyinmylife,I'vebeenrepeatedlyremindedofthepowerofpracticingsomethingregularly.
最近,生活總是不斷提醒我,定期練習(xí)是個(gè)強(qiáng)大力量。
Dailyisbest,I'velearned,butseveraltimesaweekworkswelltoo.
根據(jù)我的經(jīng)驗(yàn),能每天練習(xí)當(dāng)然是最好的,但是每周練習(xí)幾次也同樣會(huì)讓人受益匪淺。
You'dbesurprisedhowmuchprogressyoucanmakewithevenasmallamountofpractice,appliedregularly.
堅(jiān)持定期練習(xí),哪怕每次只下壹點(diǎn)點(diǎn)功夫,也會(huì)帶來(lái)意想不到的進(jìn)步。
Someexamplesinmyliferecently:
來(lái)看看我最近生活中的例子吧:
Adailyyogapracticeofjust10minutes:Iamnotanexperiencedyogi,I'm
每天做短短10分鐘的瑜伽:我不是壹個(gè)經(jīng)驗(yàn)豐富的瑜伽達(dá)人,身體也不怎么柔韌,再加上我只是偶爾才練壹練,所以我的瑜伽水平實(shí)在是沒(méi)什么進(jìn)步。但是,最近我下定決心每天練習(xí)瑜伽短短10分鐘(大部分時(shí)候就是做幾個(gè)拜日式)……剛開(kāi)始的時(shí)候,每次做下犬式時(shí),我的肩膀總是很快感到疲乏。
但是現(xiàn)在,我可以保持姿勢(shì)更長(zhǎng)時(shí)間,也不覺(jué)得那么累了。我確確實(shí)實(shí)看到了每天練習(xí)僅僅10分鐘帶來(lái)的進(jìn)步。當(dāng)然了,這不是瑜伽的核心所在(畢竟瑜伽是壹種正念修行),但這樣的進(jìn)步還是讓我非常驚喜。
Running3-4timesaweekwithEva:EvaandIstarteddoingahalf-marathontrainingplanbyNoMeatAthleteabout6or7weeksago.Wedo3-4runsaweek(dependingonourschedules),andwhenwestartedout,wewerebothprettyoutofshape.Evahadtostopacoupletimesevenona2-milerun,andIwasfarfrommypeakrunningshape.
但是在我們堅(jiān)持6周之后(而且僅僅是短跑),我們看到了巨大的差異。在這個(gè)過(guò)程中,我們從來(lái)沒(méi)有把自己逼得太緊,僅僅是堅(jiān)持定期跑步,但它卻著實(shí)為我們帶來(lái)了可觀的進(jìn)步。
Studyinggoforjust10-20minutesaday:I'vebeenstudyingtheancientChinesegameofgothisyear,andI'mstillveryweakatit.Honestly,ifIhadmoretimetostudy,Imightbemuchstronger.Butinstead,I'vebeenjustdoingabout10-20minutesofstudyingaday,andI'mstillmakingnoticeableprogresswithmycalculatingability.Stillnotstrong,butI'mgettingstrongerslowly,justputtinginaminimalamountofstudytime.
Chinupswithmyson3timesaweek:Inthelastcoupleofweeks,my13-year-oldsonandIdecidedtodoachinupschallenge.Threetimesaweek,wedofivesetsofchinupsduringtheday.WhenIstartedout,Icouldonlydo10-11chinupsperset,butnowIcando16-17eachset.Inlessthantwoweeks.Thatkindofprogressisencouraging.
Dailyfocussessionsbyaclient:Ihaveacoachingclientwhodoesdailyfocussessions,traininghimselftofocusonsomethinglonger.Hejustdoes15-minutesessionseveryday,whichisn'talot.Buthe'sseenhisabilityincreasenoticeably,evenwhenhe'snotdoingafocussession.
Justasmallamountofdailypractice,oratleastafewtimesaweek.It'spowerful.Here'swhatI'velearned:
只要每天練習(xí)壹點(diǎn)點(diǎn),或者至少每周幾次,就能帶來(lái)改變。如果你還在猶豫這是否適合你,這是我對(duì)定期練習(xí)的壹些心得:
Ifyou'restudyingsomething,youforgetless.It'sgreattostudyforacouplehours,butifyoudon'tstudyforafewdaysafterthat,you'llstartforgetting.Dailystudysessions,evenifthey'reshort,interrupttheforgettingprocess.Thereforeit'smoreefficient,asyoudon'tslipbackwardsbutkeepmakingforwardprogress.
你會(huì)在學(xué)習(xí)中忘記得更少。壹次學(xué)習(xí)幾個(gè)小時(shí)當(dāng)然很好,但如果你在此之后幾天不學(xué)習(xí),你就開(kāi)始忘記了。而每天學(xué)習(xí),即使每次的時(shí)間不長(zhǎng),也能夠中斷忘記的過(guò)程。這樣,你就不會(huì)逐漸倒退,而是持續(xù)進(jìn)步,學(xué)習(xí)當(dāng)然就會(huì)更加有效率。
Ifyouareweak,yougetstrongerwithoutinjury.It'shardtogetstrongerwhenyou'reweak(atyoga,running,chinups,whatever).Butsmallregulardoseswillgetyoustronger,slowly.Ifyougiveyourselfbigdoses,hopingforfasterprogress,you'remorelikelytogetinjured,burnout,orgetdemotivatedbecauseofthedifficultylevel.Slowandsmallisbetter.
你可以增強(qiáng)運(yùn)動(dòng)能力而不受傷。萬(wàn)事開(kāi)頭難。當(dāng)你不擅長(zhǎng)某些運(yùn)動(dòng)的時(shí)候(比如瑜伽、跑步、引體向上等等),是很難在這方面提高的。但定期進(jìn)行“小劑量”的練習(xí)可以讓你慢慢地變得更強(qiáng)。如果你選擇突然進(jìn)行“大劑量”練習(xí),以期取得快速進(jìn)步,那你很可能會(huì)受傷、耗盡能量、并因?yàn)殡y度過(guò)高而受到打擊。相比之下,循序漸進(jìn)是更好的選擇。
Progressisn'tnoticeableinthefirstweek,butitisafteracoupleofweeks.Ifyou'rejustgivingyourselfsmalltrainingorstudydoses,youwon'tseeanydifferenceatfirst.That'sOK,keepdoingit.Afteracoupleofweeks,you'llnoticesomesolidprogress,andamonthintoit,you'llseemajorimprovement.Keepatit.
別著急,進(jìn)步會(huì)來(lái),只是晚壹些。進(jìn)步不是第壹周內(nèi)就能看到的,而是要等到數(shù)周后才看得到的。如果你只是定期花壹點(diǎn)點(diǎn)時(shí)間做訓(xùn)練或者學(xué)習(xí),你不會(huì)在剛開(kāi)始時(shí)就看出成果。這是正常的,所以你要堅(jiān)持做下去。幾周以后,你會(huì)注意到壹些明顯的進(jìn)步;堅(jiān)持壹個(gè)月,你將看到顯著的提高。堅(jiān)持下去,不要放棄!
Smalldosesmakeiteasytododaily.Ifyouwanttotrainforanhouraday,thatisonlysustainableforawhile.Eventuallyyou'llrunoutofenergy,orthingswillgetbusyandyouwon'thavethetimeforyourhourlongsession.
“小劑量”練習(xí)更容易每天堅(jiān)持。如果你想每天訓(xùn)練1小時(shí),你或許只能堅(jiān)持這么做壹小段時(shí)間。最終,你會(huì)感覺(jué)自己被掏空,或者被忙碌的生活纏身,無(wú)暇完成每次壹小時(shí)的訓(xùn)練。
Maybeyou'llmiss2-3daysinarow—nowyou'velostmotivation,andyou'rediscouraged.It'sbettertodoitinsmalldoses,becauseit'seasiertogetstartedwhenyouknowyou'rejustdoing10-15minutes,andit'seasiertofindthetimeandmotivationforsmallsessions.
你可能會(huì)連續(xù)兩叁天都失約——這個(gè)時(shí)候的你,不但已經(jīng)失去動(dòng)力,而且還變得沮喪灰心。所以,“小劑量”的訓(xùn)練,也許會(huì)是更好的選擇。當(dāng)你知道你只需要進(jìn)行10-15分鐘的“小劑量”訓(xùn)練時(shí),無(wú)論是找到行動(dòng)的時(shí)間或者動(dòng)力,都會(huì)變得更加容易。
Makesureit'sfun.Doingachoreisboringandhard,andyou'llputitoff,evenifit'sjusta10-minutesession.Instead,don'tmakeitachorethatyouhavetogetthrough.Makeitagamethatyoulookforwardtodoing.Oramini-meditationsessionthatbringspeacetoyourlife,atimetorelax.Oramomentofmagicandloveliness.Createanactivitythatyou'lllookforwardto.
確保練習(xí)的樂(lè)趣。做壹件苦差事往往既無(wú)聊又艱難,即使只需要10分鐘,你也很可能會(huì)把它拖延掉。因此,不要把日常練習(xí)當(dāng)成壹個(gè)你不得不熬過(guò)的苦差事。你應(yīng)該做的,就是把練習(xí)設(shè)計(jì)成壹個(gè)令你充滿(mǎn)期待的活動(dòng),這樣壹來(lái),你對(duì)練習(xí)的想法就會(huì)改變。例如:
“真期待進(jìn)行這壹場(chǎng)游戲!”
“等下要去做壹下冥想了,終于可以平靜下來(lái),放松片刻!”
“待會(huì)兒的某某某活動(dòng),壹定會(huì)很神奇很美妙!”
所以,當(dāng)練習(xí)變得好玩的時(shí)候,你就能夠更好地堅(jiān)持下來(lái)。
Bringthemagicofsmall,regularpracticetoyourlife!
用點(diǎn)點(diǎn)滴滴的日常練習(xí),打開(kāi)你人生新世界的大門(mén)吧!
莫名其妙地沖親近的人發(fā)火,事后卻追悔莫及;
對(duì)生活、未來(lái)充滿(mǎn)了無(wú)力、焦感與迷茫;
越來(lái)越懶散,越來(lái)越無(wú)所謂,越來(lái)越難開(kāi)心起來(lái)……
生活工作帶來(lái)的巨大壓力,往往會(huì)讓我們的精神長(zhǎng)期處于緊繃狀態(tài),讓我們的心理亞健康!
心理亞健康不僅可能引發(fā)失眠、抑郁等嚴(yán)重的心理問(wèn)題,還會(huì)增加身體器官病變的可能性,嚴(yán)重的還會(huì)威脅生命安全。
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